![]() Angie Rao for BuzzFeed News To my own utter surprise, I have fully committed to celebrating Halloween this year. I decided to wear a costume. I bought said costume (a month in advance!). I’m even having it tailored because I plan to wear it at every Halloween function I’m invited to from now until I die. It’s an investment.
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Personal Essays Agata Nowicka for BuzzFeed News I Pop My Pimples Even Though I Know I Shouldn’t by Amelia Possanza
I can't get rid of my anxiety, but I can get rid of this pimple.
We Prioritize Boys' Suffering At Girls' Expense by Shannon Keating Controversy over Brett Kavanaugh's nomination has raised the question: Should 17-year-old boys be held responsible later in life for alleged sexual assault? That depends on whose pain we value most.
Maximizing Credit Card Points Is The Perfect (Legal) Scam by Matt Ortile
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In a world where we’re guaranteed so little, at least you can count on cash back.
I Take Medication For Depression, Hair Loss, And Erectile Dysfunction, And There’s Nothing Shameful About That by Joseph Osmundson
New companies like Roman and Hims will ship erectile dysfunction medication straight to your door — but are they profiting off the stigma they claim to be fighting?
Newsletter exclusive: an astrology column from executive editor Karolina Waclawiak ![]() Are you okay? Are we okay? Is anything okay? It feels like each time I return with a new column I’m starting with the same central concern — if we are not okay, what will it take to be okay? Maybe not the best you’ve ever been, or killing it in all avenues of your life, but what about just taking-it-one-day-at-a-time okay? In our current moment, I would suggest striving for that as a baseline if you’ve been finding yourself underwater. The year 2018 has continued its march, and with it we have seen no fewer than 1 million headlines that make us want to call in sick and stare into the abyss of the Pacific Ocean.
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Pickup Artists Are Still A Thing. And They Want You To Know They’ve Evolved. by Scaachi Koul
In 2005, Neil Strauss’s The Game changed how we date. Now Mystery, the pickup artist featured in the book, is trying to disassociate from the toxic effects of the industry he helped launch. For more on the “manosphere,” watch the new BuzzFeed News series Follow This on Netflix.
Could This Unknown Montana Governor Be Our Next President? by Anne Helen Petersen
Democrats might need a straight white man from the middle of the country, like Steve Bullock, to win the 2020 election. But do they want one?
Asking People About #MeToo Uncovers A Generation Gap by Tomi Obaro Shannon Levin for BuzzFeed News
A new survey conducted by BuzzFeed News and Ipsos shows a notable partisan and generational divide on the #MeToo movement.
Regina Hall Isn’t Going To Be Underrated Anymore by Bim Adewunmi Brinson+Banks for BuzzFeed News
With a lead role in Support the Girls and a big year yet to come, the Girls Trip star’s moment has finally arrived.
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People Want To Hear That I'm Happy I Was Adopted. It's Not That Simple by Nicole Chung
Growing up, being Korean and being adopted were things I loved and hated in equal measure. An excerpt from All You Can Ever Know.
9 Books That Capture What It's Like To Live With Mental Illness by Maggy van Eijk
Memoirs, fiction, YA — these books show what it's like when your brain seems to be working against you.
One trans woman’s story of spending nine months in solitary confinement in a men’s prison. An excerpt from Six by Ten: Stories from Solitary, out on October 2.
Which New Books Should You Read This Fall? by Arianna Rebolini
With so many great books coming out, it can be almost impossible to choose.
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Three new books by Ada Limón, Sonya Huber, and Sandra Gail Lambert change the narrative around what it means to live with illness — and be well.
15 Books For People Questioning The Idea Of "Happily Ever After" by Rachel Krantz
Since entering into an open relationship three years ago, I've been trying to untangle myths around gender, sexuality, and love. These are the books that have helped.
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Taylor Swift Is Still Catching Up To The Political Conversation by Pier Dominguez Swift’s statement about the midterm elections has come at a moment when her political silence was becoming more costly to her than any potential backlash.
A Star Is Born May Not Get Pop Music Right, But It Gets That It Matters by Alison Willmore
Bradley Cooper and Lady Gaga have remade A Star Is Born as a tender, conflicted love story for the age of poptimism. (Spoilers, if you haven’t caught any of the three previous versions of this movie.)
Why No Scandal Has Stuck To Trump by Anne Helen Petersen
Even when a story like the New York Times’ recent tax investigation reveals new information, there’s no shockwave — because it doesn’t unsettle the foundation of Trump’s image.
The Young Pope Is The Best TV Show Since The Sopranos by Eric Thurm ![]() Jade Schulz for BuzzFeed News
Occasionally, someone will congratulate me on “committing to the bit,” as if it’s inconceivable that I could love something this much.
A Star Is Born Has Solved Lady Gaga’s Musical Identity Crisis by Pier Dominguez
Lady Gaga is the kind of multifaceted pop star A Star Is Born doesn’t quite know how to portray, but her talent both brings Ally to life and proves that Gaga’s star is still rising. (Spoilers for the movie).
Is There Such A Thing As Ballet That Doesn’t Hurt Women? by Ellen O'Connell Whittet ![]() Stephane De Sakutin / AFP / Getty Images
The fallout from a year of #MeToo forces us to ask how ballet can become less damaging to women and their bodies, and who needs to be included to make that change.
Another newsletter exclusive: an interview with a writer we love! This month: Anne Lamott, whose latest collection of essays Almost Everything: Notes on Hope comes out on Oct. 16.
What are you reading ... Anne Lamott? ![]() Sam Lamott
"I’m just finishing Julian Barnes’ The Only Story. It is a brilliant novel about love and the pain of loss, and how very real life can be. It is at times very funny. Barnes makes me so jealous with both the richness and precision of his writing, and his great wit. I am always simultaneously bitter, and grateful, when I am reading him."
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